Tuesday, June 23, 2009

God is good!

I'm sitting here on our deck on the most gorgeous night with my dog, listening to Kaley play with her feet through the monitor, and I am feeling a mixture of happiness, contentment and an overwhelming feeling of being incredibly blessed.

I was going to write something on being organized and some new techniques that I am trying, but I had to write this down, if not for anything else than to remind me of how good God is. Sometimes we have the privilege of seeing our prayers being answered and this is one of those times. In response to those answered prayers, I want to praise God for His goodness and His presence in our lives.

We are so blessed because:
1) I am married to a Godly, loving, perfect-for-me husband & wonderful father to Kaley.
2) A beautiful, healthy and loving daughter who has brought even more joy to our family than we ever thought possible.
3) A home that is warm and cozy and a safe haven.
4) A church family that allows us to be who we are and who we love so much.
5) Family who love and support us (and like to get together).
6) Parents who taught us what it means to live like Christ and who pray for us daily, which is by far the greatest gift they could ever give.
7) Friends who accept us for who we are, who help us grow and change and who walk along side us in our journey.
8) A family dog who brings much comfort and laughter to our family. (I couldn't leave him out, now could I? ;)
9) And most of all, a Heavenly Father who hears our prayers, comforts us in times of struggle, rejoices in our successes and who guides us along in this journey called life.

Thank you God for everything! We are grateful:)

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Happy Father's Day Mark!!!

I am so blessed to have such a wonderful husband who has also become a fantastic father to Kaley. The very first time that Mark held Kaley in his arms, I knew that those two were going to have a very special relationship. I always knew that he would be a great father and prayed for his relationship with our baby when I was pregnant, but it is quite a gift to actually see it happening! Even when Kaley was an infant, whenever she heard Mark's voice, she would strain to see where he was at. When she got a bit older and could interact with him, her eyes would light up when he came near. It was almost as if she was thinking "Oh boy, here comes my daddy, I wonder what fun we are going to have now!" Now that she is older, whenever she hears that garage door opening, she will stop what she is doing, scramble to head towards the door and has the cutest twinkle in her eyes...her daddy is home:)

I love watching the two of them interact with each other. He is intentional about spending time with her and it usually ends up in playing a great game of chase or make believe. He will give her his undivided attention and truly have fun with her. He also has a unique ability to sense just what it is that she needs, and is right most of the time. He encourages Kaley to figure things out on her own and will help her only when she asks. He is caring, loving, patient, understanding and respectful with Kaley. She is quickly becoming a daddy's little girl and the two of them have their own special and unique relationship.

To Mark who is a great dad!
Thank you for:
-trusting, obeying and loving God with all of his heart.
-teaching your family about the amazing love of our Heavenly Father.
-praying for your family and instilling the importance of being part of a healthy church community.
-cherishing your daughter for the precious gift that she is.
-having the wisdom to look for the teachable moments to guide and inspire.
-having fun with your daughter being silly and laughing together.
-creating happy memories like singing silly songs in the car at the top of your lungs, no matter who might be looking!
-always taking the opportunity to let your daughter how much you love and appreciate her.
-taking time to listen to your little girl talk to you even when you can't understand what she is saying.
-making our home feel safe and providing for our family.
-being an encourager and a personal cheerleader.

Thank you Mark for being a great dad and an amazing husband. We love you so very much! Love always, Bren, Kaley & Baracus











Saturday, June 20, 2009

Mark's find of the month

When we were at the Holly Community Center for Kaley's swimming lessons, they had this vending machine that we saw that was nothing like one I had ever seen. It was a hotdog vending machine -yes- a place where you put in money, and it makes a warm hotdog and bun for you! No matter what the cost, we just had to try it. It actually tasted very good. There was a sign on the front that read about 10 different things that it didn't have in it, so I was thinking about how not-so-good it was going to taste, but it was very good! I think we found Mark's new favourite toy:)...and no, we are NOT getting one for the house!!!

Whoo-hoo, a hotdog stand!


Soooo happy!


Hmmm, how can this be good? Oh wait, could it actually be made with JUST meat?!!


Mark enjoying his hotdog, but not too happy I'm taking the picture of him eating:)

Friday, June 19, 2009

Kaley's First Swimming Lesson

Kaley was given 10 weeks of swimming lessons from Carrie for her first birthday. Each week they had a half an hour swimming lesson where she learned many useful things! At first she was quite unsure of the whole experience and mainly watched the others instead of joining in. But as the weeks went by, the more comfortable she became and at the end, really loved being in the water. The things she learned were getting into the water, floating on her back and front and kicking in the water. The cutest thing was when she wore a life jacket for a couple of the lessons. She looked so adorable and it was so tiny! She did fantastic though, we are so proud of her. Here is what her teacher had to say:
"Excellent effort Kaley! It was a pleasure having you in my class this spring. You have demonstrated a lot more confidence in the water, way to go:) Continue blowing your bubbles during the summer!"

On the last class, we were able to take pictures and videos of the session. Here is our little swimmer hard at work!





Daddy & Kaley showing off her report card:)


A thrill seeker in the making

Sunday, June 14, 2009

Visit from Grandpa and Grandma

My dad and mom came up this past week and a half to help us out and to visit with Kaley of course! We are *so* very thankful and blessed for the family that we have. I am thankful that we can have visits that we actually look forward to and have fun together.

Dad and mom had a lot of fun with Kaley and Baracus. Their days consisted of hour long walks that ended up at the park and countless walks up and down the sidewalk. They also were ready to help out with any projects that we had lined up and ready to go. Dad played many games with Kaley, fixed our screen doors so that little fingers and feet wouldn't put a hole through them, oiled our door hinges, tuned up my bike for the summer and helped out with the redecorating that mom and I did. Mom took on the role of Kaley's "personal assistant" for the week and got roped into all of the things that interested her!

Mark outdid himself again by creating these amazing meals that were far better than any restaurant in town. We waited patiently for our deck to be done and by the end of the week it was finished. We have enjoyed it very much and found it to be the best spot in the early morning for coffee and quiet time:)

Thanks dad and mom for a great visit, all the more memories to enjoy!

Kaley playing with Grandma


Grandpa and Kaley playing horsey


Kaley enjoying the sun on the new deck!


The two monkeys jumping on the bed:)

Monday, June 8, 2009

New Recipe!



This last week while Mark was down at District Assembly, I had the unique privilege of cooking a meal for my parents, Kaley and me. Mark does such a great job of preparing wonderful home cooked meals, and enjoys it so much, that I have become very lazy in my cooking ability. So, last week I had to dust off the cookbooks and put my cooking abilities to the test.

One thing that has come about since having Kaley is the desire to make healthier choices in the eating department for all of us. It is funny how I work hard at making sure that she eats plenty of healthy vegetables, fruits and homemade food, yet for myself, I still reach for the processed and chemical filled unhealthy foods! When will I ever learn?!

Awhile ago, when I was doing up a batch of baby food, there was a recipe for a Haddock and vegetables dish in which you even had to make a homemade cheese sauce. It turned out so good that I decided to make it last week for dinner. Not only was it full of vegetables, but the fish was nice and flaky and very tasty! I can now add another recipe to my box:) (Although, I did need to call Mark and ask about spices to add...he is the genius and we are so happy for that!!!)

Here's the recipe. It makes 1 8oz. portion:
Fillet of Fish Mornay with Vegetables
1 tbsp. butter
2/3 cup leeks, washed and finely sliced
1 cup carrots, peeled and chopped
2/3 cup broccoli, cut into small florets
1/3 cup fresh or frozen peas
4 oz. cod, hake, sole or haddock fillets, skinned
2/3 cup milk
3 peppercorns
1 bay leaf
a sprig of parsley

Sauce:
1 1/2 tbsp butter
1 tbsp flour
1/3 cup grated cheddar or Edam cheese

1. Melt the butter in a saucepan, add the leeks, and saute for 2-3 minutes. Add the carrots, cover with water, and cook for 10 minutes. Add the broccoli and cook for 5 minutes. Stir in the peas and simmer for a further 5 minutes, or until the vegetables are tender.
2. Meanwhile, put the fish in a pan with the milk, peppercorns, bay leaf and parsley. Simmer for 5 minutes, or until the fish is cooked. Set aside, reserving the cooking liquid. Discard the flavorings.
3. To prepare the sauce, melt the butter in a pan, stir in the flour, and cook for 1 minute. Gradually whisk in the fish cooking liquid, bring to a boil, and cook, stirring until the sauce has thickened. Remove from the heat, add the cheese, and stir until melted.
4. Drain the vegetables and mix with the flaked fish and cheese sauce. **If making this for baby food, blend to a puree of the desired consistency for young babies. Provided the vegetables are tender, this can be mashed or chopped for older babies who are starting to chew. This can be frozen and make into 8 one ounce portions.

Friday, June 5, 2009

Renovations!!!

My dad and mom have been visiting us for the past week and we have been having so much fun. I did get some pictures to share, but I lost my computer cord so I haven't been able to show all that we have done! They have been enjoying their time with Kaley and it has been great to have them here to stay with her while I picked up a couple of days of work and being down in Toronto for District Assembly. Another great plus to having them here is that they like to help me with my never ending projects!

One of the projects that I have been wanting to do for quite some time is to do SOMETHING with Kaley's room. Unfortunately when she graced us with her presence, I wasn't exactly *ready* for her:) Her crib and dresser were put together and a few of her clothes were in her room from the showers that we had, but other than that, things were still up in the air. So, to make a long story short, her room was usable and everything for the most part matched (except for the picture frames with babies that aren't Kaley in them.) Something had to be done, I just couldn't figure out what I wanted. Thanks to the help of my mom, we were able to put together a colour scheme that worked with the crib set that we had and yesterday, dad and mom painted her room while I was at work. It looked fantastic! Today, dad and I put up the molding and then we all pitched in to reorganize and put her room back together. Here is the finished project:











We had a great time redoing her room. She just loved it! She would go in and out of her room and touch everything, walk around and try everything out. Unfortunately, the pictures of Kaley still need to be put in the picture frames, but that will have to wait until tomorrow.